Hi there’s two more weeks of school left, are we all okay??? Get those gifts, venmo the room mom who has her shit together, and get ready for a 3 day weekend. There’s a lottt going on so put on your swimsuits and good luck.
What’s going on here:
📌 the fridge
📅 Events this weekend
📅 Events this Monday aka a wall of links
📌 The Fridge

Garden Grove Strawberry Festival is this weekend and multiple people have emailed me about it, so it definitely feels like it's worth checking out! Also, just a heads up if you're planning on rolling through Westminster and traffic is more crazytown than usual.
It’s splash pad season - Sigler and a bunch of others are official open!!!
DID WE KNOW ABOUT THIS INFLATABLE AQUATIC PARK??? Um, byeee kids, I’m doing this one solo.
Memorial day traffic = 👎🏻. Trolley = 👍🏻 There’s a bunch of free trolleys in OC and some of them open this weekend:
📅 Stuff to do: May 23-24
North-ish OC
Saturday
🌿 City of Brea Health & Wellness Expo | Brea
🏛️ Seeds of Resilience: Barrio Americano Exhibition | Long Beach
🪼 Jelly Dreamscapes Opening Day at Aquarium of the Pacific | Long Beach
🍖 Long Beach BBQ Festival | Long Beach
⚾ Angels vs. Texas Rangers | Anaheim
🧘 Yoga at the Library | Placentia
🥁 Taiko Drumming Celebration | Placentia
Sunday
🎟️ $5 Play Day at Children's Museum of La Habra | La Habra
🪼 Jelly Dreamscapes at Aquarium of the Pacific | Long Beach
🍖 Long Beach BBQ Festival| Long Beach
🏛️ Seeds of Resilience + Cocina del Barrio | Long Beach
⚾ Angels vs. Texas Rangers | Anaheim
Central-ish OC
Saturday
🎨 MAKE: Collage Bouquets at OCMA | Costa Mesa
🎡 Scottish Fest USA| Costa Mesa
🎭 Cursed at South Coast Repertory | Costa Mesa
🎡 Garden Grove Strawberry Festival| Garden Grove
🏃 Strawberry Stomp 5K | Garden Grove
🍔 Wurst Fest at Old World HB | Huntington Beach
🎡 Main Street Magic — A Golden Afternoon | Huntington Beach
🧪 Discovery Cube — Scooby-Doo! | Santa Ana
🏛️ Chinatown Memorial Unveiling Ceremony | Santa Ana
🎨 CASA Pinwheel Project| Santa Ana
🎵 Tunes at the Dunes | Newport Beach
🇺🇸 Field of Honor at Castaways Park | Newport Beach
💦 Sigler Park Splash Pad — OPENING DAY | Westminster
Sunday
🎨 Public Tour at OCMA | Costa Mesa
🎡 Scottish Fest USA | Costa Mesa
🎡 Garden Grove Strawberry Festival | Garden Grove
🍔 Wurst Fest at Old World HB | Huntington Beach
🇺🇸 Field of Honor at Castaways Park | Newport Beach
South-ish OC
Saturday
🎨 Paint & Sip Pottery Class | Dana Point
🎉 Kick-Off to Summer Celebration | Irvine
🎨 LAM Kids Sensory Studio at Laguna Art Museum | Laguna Beach
🎨 LAM Kids Studio at Laguna Art Museum | Laguna Beach
🏝️ Rivian Kids: AANHPI Cultural Session| Laguna Beach
🎬 Rivian Presents: Big Hero 6 | Laguna Beach
🇺🇸 Field of Honor at Mission San Juan Capistrano | San Juan Capistrano
🚴 Pop-Up Pump Track | Mission Viejo
🌿 Nature Makers at Crown Valley Park | Laguna Niguel
🥾 OC Parks Family Hike: Baker Canyon | Silverado
🚶 OC Parks Jr. Ranger Adventure: Peters Canyon | Orange
🎨 OC Parks EarthCraft | OC Parks
🥾 San Onofre State Beach Junior Ranger Program | San Clemente
Sunday
🇺🇸 Northwood Memorial Candle Lighting Ceremony | Irvine
🇺🇸 Field of Honor at Mission San Juan Capistrano | San Juan Capistrano
Happening All Month
What does it mean?
📚 = library event
🍊 = recurring event
🍻/🍷 = get your drink on
🎵 = live music (for adults)
MONDAY MAY 25 BONUS FOR YOUR SANITY CUZ ILY
Ceremonies + parades
🇺🇸 Richard Nixon Library Memorial Day Program | Yorba Linda
🇺🇸 El Toro Memorial Park — 35th Annual Memorial Day Program | Lake Forest
🇺🇸 Park Semper Fi Memorial Day Remembrance | San Clemente
Festivals still going hard on Monday
🍓 Garden Grove Strawberry Festival | Garden Grove
🇺🇸 17th Annual Field of Honor at Castaways Park | Newport Beach
⛵ LA Fleet Week 2026 | San Pedro
🌊 Inflatable Aquatic Park Kickoff | Newport
🎡 Fiesta Hermosa (Closing Day) | Hermosa Beach
✌🏻 See you next week!
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